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Letters
These are not checklists. They are the talks I have after someone puts a phone on the table and says, “They will not leave me alone.” Sit with one. Learn the feeling. Then you will recognize it faster next time.
Letters
The Third Person on FaceTime: Why a Fake 49ers Romance Scam Asked Women to Take Loans
Why a third person on FaceTime is not proof — the alleged fake 49ers romance scam, the ‘investor’ on the call, and why they ask you to take a loan.
2026-08-31 · 11 min read
Letters
How Scammers Think (2026): Why They Keep Contacting You After You Say No
A personal letter on how scammers think, why they keep calling after you refuse, and how to know if you are being scammed — written for the knot in your stomach, not a quiz.
2026-08-30 · 11 min read
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